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Introduction<\/b><\/h2>\n

I would argue that the notion of mindset<\/a> is so fundamental to success in life, it should be taught in kindergarten.\u00a0 So, what leads me to say this and how do we change our mindset? <\/span><\/p>\n

In this article we explore why mindset is so important for personal and professional growth and discover how a shift in mindset can help you unlock your potential by developing a confident, growth and success mindset<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Mindset Types<\/b><\/h2>\n

Mindset is the set of <\/span>thoughts, attitudes and beliefs that we hold<\/span><\/i>. This is important because it underpins what we do. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you want a different outcome in life, you need to pay attention to this because it can truly impact how you react and interact with people, situations and events in your life. To change the outcome, you need to change the mindset.\u00a0 Not surprisingly, <\/span>mindset<\/span><\/i> is complex. To enrich our understanding of this, it can be helpful to explore three different types of mindset; confidence, growth and success.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Confident Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

The confident mindset is all about building confidence. There are different characteristics of confidence and these relate to self, task and social.<\/span><\/p>\n

Breakdown of the Confident Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h4>\n

Self-confidence refers to how you see yourself, and is commonly associated with self-worth and self-esteem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Task confidence is similar but slightly different in that it relates more to confidence in doing a task. For example, Sam might be confident in himself (self-confidence high), but not very confident driving a car (task confidence low) or vice versa.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Social confidence relates to confidence when interacting socially.\u00a0 The important thing to remember about confidence, and mindset generally, is that this is something we can change. All this requires is effort and the \u2018know how\u2019.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Impact of a Confident Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h4>\n

Building a confident mindset is important for personal and professional growth because it underpins decision making, appetite for risk taking and willingness to take control and to act. Typically, when we have a confident mindset we are more willing to make decisions and choices that stretch us, we\u2019re more willing to take ownership and control to change things and we\u2019re more likely to push ourselves outside of our comfort zone. This can lead to more success and to achieving goals that matter to us, whatever they are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Growth Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

A growth mindset<\/a> is concerned with growth potential, but essentially this relates to openness. When we talk about a growth mindset, this is often discussed in terms of having a growth or fixed mindset.\u00a0 In the context here, having a growth mindset is about being open-minded, being open to feedback and being adaptable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Breaking down the Growth Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h4>\n

When we develop more of a growth mindset we are more likely to listen and be receptive to different points of view including feedback.\u00a0 We are more open to making mistakes and willing to try something new so that we can learn from this. We are also more likely to develop a positive attitude, where we have energy and enthusiasm for our goals. When we have these elements in sync we are more likely to move closer towards our goals and success.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Success Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

A success mindset is about focusing on goals to get results.<\/span><\/p>\n

Breaking down the Success Mindset<\/i><\/b><\/h4>\n

The characteristics of a success mindset relate to purpose, motivation and commitment. This is about defining a goal, a focus, a direction. However, that alone is not sufficient, it also involves motivation and understanding what drives you, what keeps you connected to your goal, and finding enthusiasm and passion.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, the success mindset is also about commitment, so that when things get difficult you persevere and keep going until you achieve your goal, so that you stay consistent and accountable. Sometimes this can be called \u2018grit\u2019.\u00a0 When we have a success mindset we create a plan, and we find our purpose. We remove obstacles, apply effort, stay consistent and we hold ourselves accountable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Beliefs and Limiting Mindset Shifts<\/b><\/h2>\n

In order to shift our mindset, we need to acknowledge that our beliefs shape our mindset. However, sometimes the beliefs we hold don\u2019t always serve us. In fact, often our beliefs can do the opposite, and hold us back or get in our way. In these circumstances we have self-limiting beliefs and in order to shift our mindset it is important to challenge these limiting beliefs<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Overcoming a Fixed Mindset<\/b><\/h3>\n

In order to shift our mindset, this may involve overcoming a fixed mindset and adopting some of the mindsets discussed earlier around confidence, growth and success. With a fixed type of mindset, we are less likely to apply effort or learn from our mistakes and much less likely to be open to new experiences, including shifting our beliefs. However, we can all learn to change this if the motivation and will is there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Self Awareness<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

Before we can shift anything, we have to build awareness. If we lack self-awareness, it is very difficult to challenge or change anything. Building self-awareness is the starting point to shifting mindset. When we have self-awareness this allows us to make an intentional choice to change things.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Challenge Negative Beliefs<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

We may also have to challenge negative beliefs by removing them and replacing them with more constructive, positive beliefs that will support us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Embrace Challenges and Accept Failure<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

Overcoming a fixed mindset may also involve accepting failure or learning to reframe the way we \u2018see\u2019 failure. When we have a positive mindset we are more likely to embrace failure and see this as an opportunity for learning and therefore, growth.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on Effort over Outcome<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

Additionally as we shift our mindset, we need to learn to focus more on applying effort rather than focusing purely on the outcome. With effort, we persevere, we\u2019re consistent and we move closer towards success and growth.<\/span><\/p>\n

In contrast, when we focus purely on the outcome, this can feel overwhelming and sometimes unattainable. However, when we focus on effort, we learn as we go along our journey and move closer towards the outcome we desire.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Recognise and Celebrate Progress<\/i><\/b><\/h3>\n

It\u2019s also important to make sure that we recognise and celebrate our progress along the way. This is reinforcing and energising. Recognising progress means valuing effort and evaluating and measuring achievements, large and small.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Shifting to a Growth, Confident and Success Mindset<\/b><\/h2>\n

The steps involved in shifting mindset are as follows:<\/span><\/p>\n